Understanding the idea of human construct (which I’ll refer to as HC) has taken my conscious thought process and flipped it on its head. I truly cannot look at most situations the same after becoming aware of this process. It’ been eye opening as well as a catalyst for me to (without even trying) re-wire my brain.
Please keep in mind that I’m describing a belief of my own and some people may not like or agree with this concept. If this idea is not for you, that’s fine. It took me a while to fully understand and accept it, myself, and I believe that we are all here on earth with our own set of experiences we’re meant to have and pursue. Just because this concept has helped me on my path doesn’t mean that it’s meant for everyone. Every soul is unique.
“…there is no good or bad. All experience is neutral.”
HC is the slant we as humans give to the process we naturally go through of relating to what we are experiencing. Essentially, there is no good or bad. All experience is neutral. Labeling something as “good” or “bad” is a process of discernment that we have learned. It is how we relate to our world. We fit ideas and experiences into these tiny packages that we can then understand and store away in our brains. My definition of HC concludes that the packages aren’t even real. They are just a process of the 3D mind that we have learned.
I’d like to emphasize one word, here; learned. We have our basic human reactions that are innate such as jumping when startled (fight or flight), but HC is basically everything else and everything else is learned. Since birth we’ve all learned about our environment based on what we observed our parents doing. This was then reinforced in our education systems as we got older and again, as adults, in our social systems, with what we see on the news and social media, etc. For some reason we’ve all agreed that it’s proper or “right” to think and behave in a certian way.
We create these packages of information or rules for ourselves such as,
If I’m going to have a sucessfull day I need to get up early, complete my list of tasks, take care of myself…etc
Money can’t buy happiness
Success is defined by where you went to school, what kind of a job you have and how much money you make
Sometimes we find that these packages really work for us. It’s all about perspective. For some people, the rules we create for ourselves help us become our best selves. But what I want to explain here is that the idea of being your best self is also HC. It’s all part of the experience we came here to have.
Other times these boxes or rules don’t seem to fit, like our ideas of what success is. If someone finds happiness in poverty, does that really mean they are not successful in life? Or how about that idea of how a successful day is supposed to look? If you got up at noon, maybe forgot about a few items on your to-do list but had a joyful day, does that mean it was not a successful day? Is it really necessary to be upset with oneself for not achieving such daily goals? And for some people, money truely can buy happiness.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying abandon all of your learned ideas about reality. A lot of these ideas are good and powerful such as,
Being polite to others is important
We should strive to always help those in need
Working together achieves the best results for everyone
I believe that some of this HC is good and can work to serve us for the better.
All of your thoughts, even down to how you think, is learned. It’s all part of a construct that we’ve created and, for some reason, we ALL adhere to. But, do we really need to adhere to all of it? Would the HC, for example, be unlike ours on another planet where the social structure could essentially be different? Would how they think look different? Would they even label things as good or bad, as we do? Do you see what I’m trying to get across, here? When you finally understand and break down the barriers and limitations of your own thought processes, and start to ask why? HC begins to look somewhat absurd.
Now on to the juicy stuff!
I’ve been on this journey of controlling my racing mind so I can clear a path for my heart center or higher guidance to come through. One day I decided to follow my thought processes and determine which thoughts were learned, HC and which were truly my own (or in this case, which were potentially my higher self, attempting to guide me). What I found was that EVERYTHING was a stimulated, learned reaction. Everything was triggered by something that I pulled from my memory bank of learned ideas and opinions.
Example: I suddenly caught myself thinking about a time when our old neighbor decided it would be a good idea to harass my husband via text message while we were on vacation (and I was becoming agitated). Since I was following my thoughts I wondered why, the heck, I was thinking about that? So, I retraced my thoughts and realize they went back to me hearing the new neighbors dog barking in the backyard, moments before. It then triggered my,
1- thinking about how nice it was to have neighbors that like dogs,
2- thinking about how awful my old neighbors were and then,
3- thinking about the text message incident.
A series of thoughts and memories, stimulated and learned. Probably something I didn’t need any more and could let go of. Defiantly not my own. You see, the plus side of breaking down this process was that I began to realize that there were one or two thoughts throughout my day that weren’t stimulated by learned reactions (HC) and seemed to come out of nowhere. These I believe were higher guidance. More on that in another post, but, in the end, I realized that my daily thought process was a congested mess of nonsense that I didn’t even need. Human Construct.
“This is the beauty of HC; you realize that there is so much in the world that you can just let go of!”
Part of understanding HC has been liberating! Emotions I feel that are triggered by the construct; I don’t need them. I see angry people on the news; understanding that their anger is HC, I can simply observe and not engage with it emotionally. In the end, being emotionally triggered by my old neighbors who didn’t like dogs, was my own HC. I didn’t need to let that anger me. This is one thing I learned from Energy Codes (My Experience; Dr. Sue Morter- Energy Codes); Everyone has a story (HC), engaging in someone else’s story is making their story my own. When I allow someone on the television or even out in public to anger me then I am simply making their story (their HC) my own. This is the beauty of understanding HC; you realize that there is so much in the world that you can just let go of!
Another aspect of HC (that some may have a hard time with) is the idea that every experience is, essentially, neutral. For example; one who loses a child in a car accident could find that experience as far from neutral and nothing short of a heart-wrenching tragedy. Energy Codes has another brilliant explanation for this HC; if you take the idea of something in life happening to you and flip it to everything in life happening for you it has the ability to flip your perspective, as well. Let’s say that same person decided before incarnating here on earth that they wanted to experience or learn what it’s like to truly forgive someone? The situation could then be viewed as an opportunity for growth and learning, as gut-wrenching of a situation as it is. This is a part of the idea of HC that I kind-of still have a hard with because I think about that person losing their child and it makes me so sad. Then I think about the innocent child and it make me even more sad. But it’s still a powerful change in perspective that maybe, one day, that person can find the ability to achieve. You can take your own HC and re-wire it. It’s because of HC that we choose to have an experience on earth.
The way I see it, HC makes it all seem like a bunch of ridiculous nonsense, here on earth, but we can either take HC just seriously enough to learn from it, or too seriously and suffer from it. We are choosing our own realities every day and I find that idea empowering!
Or I guess you could abandon the HC all together and do your own thing…After all, it’s all Human Construct LOL. FYI, I’m not recommending this. I’m simply making a humorous attempt to prove the point that all experiences are neutral until assigned meaning.
The explanation of human construct doesn’t fit into our human construct. 😊
***I am not a professional and what I am sharing should not be taken as medical advice. I am sharing my own personal experiences.
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